While it's understandable to be nervous about introducing sex toys for couples in the bedroom, they can actually deepen the relationship between partners.
Types of Couples Sex Toys
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Couples Vibrators
These are vibrators one person can wear while engaging in penetrative sex, so both can feel the vibrations.
With remote-controlled toys like the Tracy's Dog OG Pro 2, you can tease your partner with vibrations without ever touching them, making the moment when you do touch much more intense.
Long-distance couples can use app-enabled sex toys to set the vibration speed or the motions of the toy, allowing them to connect even with physical distance.
Strap-Ons and Harnesses
Strap-ons like the Pipedream Products Double Delight allow both of you to experience penetration at the same time and move against each other in rhythm.
By attaching a strap-on dildo like the Tantus Silk to a harness, you can flip the dynamic between you two, with you doing the pegging.
How can sex toys improve intimacy in a relationship?
Contrary to popular belief, sex toys can make couples feel closer to each other. There’s an innate pleasure in trying something new together, which is what couples experience with sex toys.
Are there discreet sex toys for couples?
The couple’s vibrators are usually discreet, especially the ones like the Satisfyer Sexy Secret Panty Vibrator. These types of vibrators are whisper-quiet, yet your partner can use the remote control to change the patterns, letting you both play a secret game even in public.
How do I introduce sex toys to my partner?
Start with sending your partner links to blogs or videos on why you should be introducing sex toys in the bedroom.
By letting them adequately prepare in their spare time for you to broach the subject, they would be much more receptive to your suggestion when you do have the talk.
What types of sex toys are best for beginners?
It’s best to start with a remote-controlled vibrator if you’re a beginner. With a couple’s vibrators, it can be stressful to figure out how to use the toy in a way both experience the stimulation.
But with a remote-controlled vibrator, you focus on stimulating your partner and figure out how to extend it to yourself from there on. You could start with the Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux for simple control.
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Key Features to Consider
Dual stimulation: Who is the couple’s toy mainly for? Are you looking for a toy with G-spot and clitoral stimulation? Or do you need one where the double stimulation should be from focusing on the prostate and perineum?
Control Type: Remote-controlled couple’s toys limit your enjoyment inside the room, as Bluetooth loses connectivity after a range. But if you’re in a long-distance relationship, you want an app-enabled sex toy, so you can surprise your partner anywhere, like with the Lovense Lush 3.
Material: Go for soft, flexible materials like silicone and TPE. As beginners, you might have more fun with a bendable, texture-rich sex toy, as they feel more luxurious.
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